“Most people give up right before the breakthrough.”
There is a moment in almost every affiliate program where momentum is building — but revenue hasn’t caught up yet.
Recruiting is active.
Partners are testing.
Content is going live.
Tracking is stabilizing.
Then someone looks at a spreadsheet.
And asks a single question:
“Is this working?”
This week, let’s talk about why so many affiliate programs get cut at exactly the wrong time — and how smart leadership avoids that trap.
What You’ll Get in Chaos to Grow
• Why affiliate momentum is invisible before it compounds
• The internal pattern that resets programs every 90 days
• The difference between strategic patience and wasted spend
• How to tell if your agency is building — or just maintaining
• What should happen instead of cutting prematurely
The 90-Day Danger Zone
After 60–90 days, affiliate programs enter a dangerous phase.
The foundational work is underway:
• onboarding partners
• negotiating placements
• aligning incentives
• optimizing tracking
• testing messaging
But revenue hasn’t hit escape velocity.
This is when programs are most vulnerable — not because they’re failing, but because they’re misunderstood.
Why Affiliate Faces a Unique Double Standard
No one asks for a direct revenue multiple on:
• your paid media manager’s salary
• your CMO
• your operations team
• your HR department
Yet affiliate management is often expected to show a 1–5x return on the management fee alone.
That expectation misunderstands what is being built.
Affiliate management is not just commission processing.
It’s relationship infrastructure.
It’s partner development.
It’s performance architecture.
And architecture takes time.
When You SHOULD Cut Bait
Let’s be clear — patience is not blind loyalty.
You should reconsider your agency or internal leadership when:
• There are no consistent check-ins
• There is no documented strategy
• The only visible work is “approving affiliates”
• There are no proactive ideas or recruitment initiatives
• You feel like you’re chasing updates
That’s not building. That’s motion.
Motion vs. Momentum
This is where many brands struggle.
Motion looks like activity.
Momentum looks like progress.
Motion:
• reports
• approvals
• maintenance
Momentum:
• new quality partners entering the pipeline
• structured incentive planning
• coordinated promotions
• improved activation rates
• content partnerships expanding
If momentum is forming, cutting resets the clock.
The Real Cost of Resetting
When a program gets cut prematurely:
• trust with partners erodes
• recruiting momentum stops
• network relationships cool
• strategy fragments
When you restart later, you are not continuing.
You are rebuilding.
And rebuilding always costs more than sustaining.
What Strong Leadership Does Differently
The strongest brands I’ve worked with over 20+ years do three things consistently:
- Align early with executives on realistic timelines
- Define what progress looks like before revenue spikes
- Maintain structured, documented weekly check-ins
They don’t wait for panic to create clarity.
Your Chaos Challenge This Week
Ask yourself:
Are we evaluating affiliate based on lagging revenue — or leading indicators of growth?
If you don’t know what those leading indicators are, that’s the work to do next.
Final Thought
Affiliate programs rarely fail because they don’t work.
They fail because they aren’t understood.
Give the right strategy room to compound.
Cut the wrong strategy quickly.
Know the difference.
That’s leadership.
—Matt Frary
Chief of Chaos

